If a date leaves you feeling confused or, worst still, cold, then his head may be telling him it’s worth a go but his heart’s not in it.He’s inconsistent If your guy blows hot and cold depending on how his day’s been or what the weather’s like the chances are that he is more absorbed with his own needs and feelings than he his with yours.
You should never have to persuade someone to go out with you, or hang around being his ‘friend’ until he sorts his act out enough to promote you to ‘girlfriend’.
If a man’s into you he’ll be ready for a relationship because he knows if he isn’t he might miss a golden opportunity.
Don’t hold onto an unhappy relationship because the rare occasion when the sun comes out is so special, you’re worth more than that.
He’s not into anything much Some men are more like lost boys and the temptation for women is to snap into a mothering role where they scoop them up and make it all better.
He’s not ready for a relationship If a man you’re dating tells you he isn’t ready for a relationship (with you) believe him.